Pictured above: dolsot bibimbap. This is one of two dishes I often get at a Korean restaurant. It's essentially white rice topped with veggies, choice of protein, dried seaweed, and spicy bean paste sauce.
My parents set a tradition to ensure the best of grades for my sisters and I. At the end of each grading semester, my sisters or I gets to choose where to eat out for dinner. Whoever has the best grades has the privilege to choose a place to eat out for dinner. This way, the whole family gets rewarded for eighteen weeks of hard work. My parents reinforced the behavior to motivate my sisters and I to compete for the best grades. Factor in me as the eldest child, a senior in high school, and compare it with my sisters in the seventh grade; my job as a student gets that much harder. Their use of positive reinforcement increases the likelihood of top notch grades with the reward of a family dinner outing.
In my recent years, I found grades go beyond choosing where to go for dinner. Rather, I motivate myself with colleges and scholarships. I grew up accepting life as a student as my career. It requires the dedication and diligence equivalent, if not higher, than any job accessible to a high school student. I may not get paid for studying, but that will come with scholarships and college acceptances.